GIRL TALK // The True Gem

I'm sure many of you are aware of the awesomeness that is Moorea Seal, but in case you aren't, let me introduce you. Moorea is a highly talented jewelry designer and a member of the oh so lovely Freckled Nest Design Team! She is just as sweet and kind as ever too. I feel so lucky to have met her in this little blog world & I know you will just love her! 

What is your job title? Jewelry Designer, Small Business Owner, Illustrator, Blog Designer

What do you love about yourself?  I love that I am so much like my Dad, my Grandmother, and My Great Grandfather.  Compassion, Empathy, being true to yourself, determination, passion, and justice for others are all very important to my family. I love that I am strong willed and follow through with what I set my mind to.  I love that I never gave up on what I cared about during my life despite many years of bullying and teasing.  I love that I am strong.  and I love that loving others is so important to me.

Who Is your role model?  My grandmother passed away recently and she was my ultimate hero.  She was born in the 20s, and from an early age her father instilled in her that she wasn't just equal to men, she was something incredibly special, she was brilliant woman with a wise voice worth listening to.  She was SO intelligent, incredibly giving, and so determined to always be her best self.  She was a progressive woman far ahead of her time.  She was the first woman student body president at her university in the 1940s.  She was a teacher and a community activist.  She created the first "English As A Second Language" program in the United States and helped start the first 3 bilingual schools in the LA area.  The current ESL programs running across the country are based off of her original plan.  She was on the board of the Red Cross.  She was an incredible mother and wife.  She had impeccable style and believed in always presenting her best self to the world.  She was just incredible, and I'm not even idealizing her!  My dad said he never saw her make a mistake.  I think that is because she was so smart that she knew exactly how to turn problems and mistakes into situations that would benefit her and those she saw were in need.  What a woman.

What inspires you?  People who have been through many struggles but choose to always be positive and seek beauty even in the hardest aspects of life.  People who trust they always have something new to learn.  When it comes to my design work and jewelry design, I'm inspired by anything that feels fresh and new, progressive but with a reverence for the beauty of historical designs.

What are five words that describe you? Compassionate, Patient, Creative, Progressive, Encouraging

What is your biggest insecurity? The fear of appearing to be someone I am not. 

If you could be anyone for a day, who would it be and why?  I'd want to be my great-grandmother at the turn of the century, early 1900s.  She was a suffragette!  Go girl!

How lovely is she?? I love reading her blog because she truly is so very inspiring. Not only is she well spoken, but she is seriously talented! If you haven't visited her shop, trust me you need to! AND not only is she positively beautiful on the inside but she is just radiant in these photos, which were taken by Marissa Maharaj photography. I could go on and on about her, haha! Thank you Moorea for chatting with us! 

I hope you all  enjoyed today's Girl Talk! If you would like to be considered to be one of our Girl Talk ladies, send me an email! Hope you have a swell day^_^

xo.

Melisa

Girl Talk // The Adventurer

For those of you who may not know Miss Kaelah, let me introduce you! Kaelah is extremely talented, inspiring and one of my personal favorite bloggers. Her life seems so dreamy; I know you'll just love her!

What is your job title?

I am a freelance graphic designer, bartender, blogger, and just recently a brand new small business owner (the Honeybean Mobile Boutique)!

What do you love about yourself?

I love that never does a day go by that I don't dream up something ridiculous or amazing to strive for. Now if I could just get my typical Aries personality to be so stoked on actually finishing all of those fabulous projects!

Who is your role model?

Each and every woman who has ever aspired to something that others say they'll never achieve. A hardworking, fearless woman! There are millions of them out there. I'm on a hunt to meet them!

What inspires you?

Everything. Personal style, seasons, artists. I strive for individuality, free thinking, and adventure. Few things are more inspiring than that!

What are five words that describe you?

Messy, a dreamer, optimistic, independent, determined

What is your biggest insecurity?

I would say my biggest insecurity is the fear that I'll let myself down. I strive for so many things and it's always heartbreaking when you fall short. But as long as I get back up and don't let it knock me around, well, I'll consider myself doing okay!

If you could be anyone for a day, who would it be?

I don't think I would choose to be anyone else for a day, honestly. I really love my life and I'm truly blessed to be working toward my dream. I wouldn't want to cheapen anyone else's dreams by stepping in their shoes and finding it a little less than fulfilling. We all aspire to different things. Dreams, goals and aspirations aren't a "one size fits all" type deal. My goals may be comical to someone else, but they're just right for me. I don't want to miss a single minute! 

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Thanks so much for sharing with us Kaelah! I love love Girl Talks! We are still currently taking applicants! If you're interested in being one of our new Girl Talk ladies, email me at Melisaholguin@gmail.com. Can't wait to hear from you^_^

xo.

Melisa

Girl Talk // The Seamstress

I'd like to introduce you to the lovely Kari Wiebe. She is the lady behind Dove Tree, the blog and sweet shop where she sells hand sewn treasures. I know you'll think she's just great!

What is your job title?

Do I have to pick just one?  In a very particular order: Seamstress, Painter, Designer, Student

What do you love about yourself?

Oh boy.  I guess I will say my determination... or for those who know me best, that would be my stubborn streak.

Who is your role model?

I wouldn't say that I have one specific role model.  I do however, have a LOT of incredible people in my life - all of whom I look to as models of characteristics I wish to have for myself.  This goes for everything from drive, to cheery dispositions and brilliant humour (ya'll know who you are).

What inspires you?

Daydreaming, fields and prairies skies, other artistically inclined folks, sunny afternoons spent with nothing but a sketchbook... The list goes on! 

  

What are five words that describe you?

In no particular order: creative, silly, imaginative, relaxed, intuitive.

What is your biggest insecurity?

My constant fear is that I won't accomplish enough.  What exactly is 'enough' you ask?  Um...

If you could be anyone for a day, who would it be?

Coco Chanel.  Now there was one witty and spirited visionary of a woman!

Thanks so much for sharing with us Kari! I love love Girl Talks! AND, exciting news, we are currently taking applicants! If you're interested in being one of our new Girl Talk ladies, email me at Melisaholguin@gmail.com. Can't wait to hear from you^_^

xo.

Melisa

She Said, He Said // P & D

How long have you been dating and/or married? 

She Said: 

How long have you been dating and/or married? 

We will have been married 16 years in November!!

He Said: 

My wife and I will be married for 15 years in November.  We actually celebrate 2 anniversaries.  One for when we were married by the law 15 years ago and the second is when we were married before God, in a church in Rio de Janeiro 8 years ago.

What did you think of each other when you first met? Was it love at first sight?

She Said: 

What did you think of them when you first met?  Was it love at first sight?

I thought Pete was a nice man when I first met him.  He seemed very sweet and kind.  However, it was not love at first sight.  

He Said: 

It was not love at first sight.  I am an internal auditor for a major oil company.  I met my wife when I audited her department.  The last thing she wanted to see were auditors.

What have you learned from your relationship?

She Said: 

I have learned that this relationship is the most precious thing that I have on this Earth and that it is to be guarded and cherished at all expense.  Good relationships take a lot of work. They are like gardens--they require lots of tending, watering, fertilizing and tender love. It is only when both parties are willing to participate that there can be success.  I have also learned that it is not always the most important thing to be right.  Sometimes how someone feels is much more important than proving your point. When it is necessary to prove your point though, prove it with love and kindness.  Strength of couple rather than self is built in a relationship where love and kindness are exercised in all things.  In summary, through my relationship I have finally learned to live and be happy.

He Said: 

I have learned from my relationship that marriages, and for that matter all relationships, are based on trust, healthy communication, and a recognition that both parties need to be able to compromise a bit for the good of the whole.

Who makes the decisions in your relationship?

She Said: 

With regard to what to have for dinner--me. With regard to what music to listen to--Pete.  With regard to all other things, it is a joint decision.

He Said: 

We make all major decisions together.

When did you know you had found "the one"?

She Said: 

I knew I had found "the one" when I was faced with a difficult decision regarding my career.  I had been offered a dream job in another state a few months after we started dating.  I asked Pete about the job fully expecting him to tell me I had to choose between the job and him (which is what a selfish person would do).  However, he told me that I had to pursue my dream and that if we were meant to be, it would all work out.  This is the first time in my life that anyone had put me and my dreams first.  At this point, I knew in my heart that if I were to ever get married, it would be to this man.  (Note that I was thirty-four at the time and had pretty much settled on the fact that I would be single forever.)  I moved to the other state and we continued to date long distance.   Needless to say, I discovered that my dream was in Texas with my sweetheart.  After a year and eight months apart, I moved back to Texas as Pete's wife.

He Said: 

I knew I had found "the one" as soon as we began talking about our value system and our definitions of right and wrong.

What is the best advice you have to offer a new couple?

She Said: 

There are basically three things that lead to a successful relationship/marriage.  1) Let no one come between you and your spouse/significant other.  Only God should be above your spouse/significant other.  If you are committed to this relationship, then you have to put your all into it.  2) Communicate.  Your relationship will never make it unless both parties agree to communicate.  Communication is not always easy.  Hard things sometimes need to be said but it is always better to say them up front rather than have them fester in your heart.  The key is to say them with love.  Remember to choose your words carefully--they cannot be taken back.  While you can say sorry, that word never fully erases the sting of sharp words which are never forgotten.  3)  Love and kindness should flow both ways.  Don't always expect to be the recipient of all things good in the relationship.  As much, if not more, satisfaction can be had from giving.  Giving doesn't always mean material things either.  Material things are societies way of expressing love.  Giving of yourself and your time make for some of the most wonderful gifts.  I have a card that Pete made for me early in our relationship.  I have it framed and hanging in our bedroom.  If I had to leave our home quickly and could only take a few things with me, that would be one of the first things I would grab because it is precious to me.  

He Said: 

The best advice I can give to new couples is that each person in the marriage needs to always look for ways to please the other.  If both parties do that consistently then the marriage will be successful.  There will be disagreements but as long as neither party dwells on them, then they will not become the focus.

What was your first date?

She Said: 

A picnic/BBQ hosted by one of Pete's colleagues at work.

He Said: 

Our first meal together was we met for lunch at Ninfa's Mexican Restaurant so I could return some tapes which I had conveniently not returned to her earlier.  Our first real date was an office party at the boss's lake house in Conroe.  When I reached out to hold her hand we both literally felt "electricity".

What are five words that describe you?

She Said: 

Compassionate, loyal, faithful, loving and smart 

He Said: 

Positive - I always look at the glass as half full. 

Caring - I care for my loved ones and will protect them to the end. Loved ones include my wife, my children, and my entire family.  Oh, and our 4 beautiful kitties. 

Christian - I love my God and my Savior. 

Giving - I will freely give of my time, finances, and spiritual gifts to the glory of His Kingdom. 

Musical -While I am not a musician, I am a lover of a wide range of musical genre, from Mariachi to Hip Hop, from Eminem to Ella Fitzgerald, from Gipsy Kings to Jerry Butler.

What are five words that describe your significant other?

She Said: 

Loving, beautiful (inside and outside), smart, compassionate and loyal/faithful (five words are not enough!!)

He Said: 

Loving - I am fully blessed with her love.  She deeply cares for all animals and will protect our 4 kittens from any harm at any cost.  She loves those who love and care for her. 

Discerning - One of her many spiritual gifts is the incredible ability to know when something/someone is not right in a particular situation. 

Intelligent - She is the smartest woman I have ever met. 

Faithful -She is faithful to God and to her friends she is faithful to the end. 

Sexy - As I said, I am blessed with the most beautiful and gorgeous woman alive.

It's always fun to gain wisdom from our parents. It was fun to hear from my Dad and Stepmom and hopefully soon, we can hear from my Mom and Stepdad! 

Would you like to be featured in a She Said, He Said post?? We are currently taking applicants for the upcoming months. If you're interested and would like more info, you can email me at Melisaholguin@gmail.com